Story by Jeff P

John’s impact on me was very profound and I’ll never forget John. His positive attitude, genuineness as a friend who was always willing to listen, love for his family, and his faith always stood out.

John was the one that welcomed me with open arms into the racquetball group and made me feel like a part of the group from Day 1. He was the leader of our group, kept everyone updated on the schedule, and would go out of his way to show up if someone wanted to play – even after he moved 20 miles away – he kept committed to the group. There is a deep void in our group that cannot be replaced.

I have a ton of fond memories of battling John on the court – he was competitive, but always humble, and was also very encouraging and supportive – even when he took a ball to his body or a racquet to his head. When I walked into the gym to play and saw John, it always brought a smile to my face.

I also have fond memories of John off the court – he and Ryane attending my surprise 50th birthday party, and he and I and Russ sharing several lunches together talking about life – work, family, faith, travels – he always made me feel important.

I hadn’t seen John in several months due to my injury, and was so excited to return in about a month to battle John again on the court and enjoy lunches with him and Russ. I’ll never get to watch him hit another ace serve, or get a winning shot down the line, and I’ll never hear his words of encouragement or feel his love as a friend. I’m very saddened – I lost a buddy that I enjoyed spending time with, that I looked up to, and who always brought joy to my life.

I cannot make sense of his death – he did all of the right things and now he’s gone. I pray for Ryane and the kids and want to offer any assistance that they need during this very difficult time.